Thank You and Goodbye

DIS and the False Accusation

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Our protests over being sacked as a host family resulted in this “thank you and goodbye” letter from DIS’ director (translated):

"DIS has the responsibility for the students staying with a host family. Our relationship to the Danish host families is based upon unconditional trust to the positive character of this.

The claim we have received about you cast doubt at the character of your behavior in relationship to our female students. The tone used in your letter underlines to me the legitimacy of our doubt.

When doubt of this sort has been sown, we do not want to continue the partnership. We do not take a stand in relationship to the claim, even if it appears unpleasantly credible.

We do not, therefore, want to use you as a host family in the future and see no reason to meet any more about this case."

The Fate of a Host Family (.pdf)

We have never met the author of the letter, so we do not think he knows us!

How can an accusation become credible when you have no evidence and you do not know anything about the accused?

The “kind” letter from DIS’ director has left us with a few questions:

What was the exact accusation? Rape?

When was it supposed to have happened?(The first night she slept in our house, the last night or just during which of the four months she stayed with us?)

Under which circumstances was the accusation raised? - and why?

Who has e-mailed the accusation? D?

Has D been told about our rejection of it?
If yes - has D dropped the accusation?

How has the case been closed against D?

In which way was the American Embassy informed? Letter, e-mail?

DIS has refused to answer any of them!

All the information about the accusation has been handled via e-mails, so it could be a case for the Danish Data Protection Agency.

We were left with no other choice than asking the Agency for assistance. They dealt with it for more than 2½ years.

DIS was not very cooperative.

After appealing their decision the Agency decided that DIS should have let us see the e-mails at our first request 3 years ago!

Bravo! 

But what happened before the final decision was reached?

You are right!

All the information we wanted access to had "regrettably" disappeared from two separate files simultaneously!

It happened about the same time the Agency disclosed the existence of the files

  Previous   Conclusions

In Danish

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Does DIS really take its responsibilities seriously?

Three female architect students preferred to do their month-long projects on our dining table.

For some reason they did not want to do their projects in the stimulating environment of the DIS studio.

 One gave sexual harassment as a reason for staying away from the DIS studio.

For some reason, DIS did not do anything about it!

 

Is the accusation against us just

a show case?

After having analyzed the circumstances more closely the explanation  appears to be:

DIS is under some form for pressure to support the false accusation against us!

Pressure from whom?

We don't know!

 

 

 

 

All personal names except our names have been kept anonymous.

     Experiences
    Getting to know 
    A Success Story
    The Shock
    Goodbye
    A Lesson to Learn
 

Does DIS really take its responsibilities seriously?

Our first encounter with DIS was meeting a DIS architect student visiting Athens.

She was caught in a situation nobody from DIS had warned her about.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Comments and questions are welcome e-mail:  family@dishostfamily.dk

 

 

Decisions mentioned conc. D are documented

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